I watched this film. Yes, I like this quote from it. But, I have learnt something more about myself.
Always, these kind of discovery, coming of age things appeal to me. Because I am a stuck person. I am, no matter my chronological age, or what I spend my time doing, stuck, at the point of being NEARLY a formed person, but somehow stuck in the one day phase.
I think this is interesting, and I wonder whether it is partly a response to living with the change in life that comes when adolescence is spent in the psych ward. When, from, “when I grow up, I will…” is replaced with just fighting to rediscover normal.
Where all the things you think life is about stop, and something new comes in, and you are just carried backwards down the river of life. Fighting to breathe, and never knowing what is the reality and what is expected.
it’s funny, because, you can do a whole range of “normal” things, but you lose that sense of achieving, of being part of the same life.
But, this film, like so many coming of age films caught me. because, I STILL wonder why my real life would be and will be like. Which is dangerous, because, this is it. There is no rehearsal, there is no, absolutely no chance that I will wake up one day back in my original life, before the hospital, or before the house move, or before any of those pivotal things. So, I am not sure how to unstick. I mean, I keep doing things, but, I never really feel right. I wonder if this happens to lots of people in the same circumstances (of which there must be many)
In this film, however, when the hero loses everything despite his best, most underhanded and concerted efforts, and despite the challenges he faces, everything lacking in his life, he gets to know how badly he has been treated by the one person who he was supposed to rely on, but never could, and then he gets to die.
This is what I wished. And, I am not sure that there isn’t actually a level of mercy in the outcome. But, I suppose, that having been given a chance to do more, doing more must be what happens. But how to reassimilate the ongoing life with the pre schism existence?
This, I suppose is something that everyone must come to terms with?